The good news for problem gamblers is that the symptoms are now well known and classified into easily recognisable groups.
Money Related Symptoms
All of us are aware of the luxurious life-styles of the uber rich and many of us dream to be a part of that elite set. Some of us face more urgent needs of large sums of money for medical treatment or higher education of our children. Movies and novels often portray gambling as a quick source of big money. Nothing is further from the truth. All gambling games have a house edge in the odds, that favour the casinos. Gamblers know that they cannot continuously win in the long run.
Players with gambling disorder are unable to grip this reality, particularly if they start with a few good wins. They feel that the solution to all their money problems will come from the next spin of the roulette wheel. So, they keep fuelling this misconception first with their disposable incomes, then savings, then borrowed money and finally stolen money.
Some specific symptoms are:
- Spending more money on gambling every month
- Looking at gambling to solve all your money problems
- Ending the session only when everything has been lost
- Playing to recoup losses
- Increasing bet sizes in order to achieve the same thrill from gambling
- Diverting money for essential spending to gambling
- Borrowing money for gambling
- Stealing money for gambling
Time Related Symptoms
Most gamblers would fix a time period for a session, say one hour. At the end of that session, they would leave the table, cash their balance chips and walk out. Problem gamblers behave differently. They find excuses to extend their scheduled time and leave the table only when their chips are over. Their planned sessions also become longer with passing time. This has become easier with online casinos where you can play from home.
Spending more time on gambling eventually eats into other daily activities. You begin by giving up your other interests and then foregoing time spent with friends. The ultimate point is reached when you begin to neglect your spouse and immediate family.
Some specific symptoms are:
- Staying away from work because of gambling
- Not being able to concentrate at work
- Loss of ambitions and goals
Social Symptoms
Problem gambling ultimately begins to affect the social life of the players as they move away from family, friends, partners and co-workers. This is probably the last chance for the problem gambler to seek treatment. The problem is that gambling addicts are convinced that there is no issue and with one big win all their strained relationships will be rectified. They routinely lie about their gambling habits, so it is up to their friends and family to take matters in hand and nudge the gambling addict towards treatment.
Financial setbacks, loss of job and social estrangement can lead to loss of esteem, from which recovery will be very difficult.
Some specific symptoms are:
- Deteriorating social relationships
- Lying about gambling habits
- Loss of esteem
Psychological Symptoms
At some point, the problem gamblers will realise that they have all but ruined their lives. They also know that if they get more funds in their hands, they will be compelled to throw it away in the casinos. This realisation brings with it a sense of fear. When they are at the tables, they forget the fear and experience exhilaration, but when the money runs out the fear returns.
The fear makes gambling addicts restless and tense and they are unable to focus on anything, and even lose sleep. In the normal course, the company of family and friends helps, but problem gamblers get irritated by any attempts to put them at ease. The worst part is that they cannot even talk about their gambling addiction and thwart all attempts to make them go for professional treatment. If this continues for some time then depression sets in and this often leads to suicidal tendencies. The only solace comes through gambling, which becomes an escape mechanism.
Some specific symptoms are:
- Fear of the future
- Irritability in interacting with family and friends
- Inability to sleep
- Suicidal thoughts
- The use of gambling as an escape